Many people have heard of, or can identify with, imposter syndrome. The behavioural health phenomenon described as self-doubt of intellect, skills, or accomplishments among high-achieving individuals.
But how many charity leaders could identify with “Guinea Pig syndrome”?
About 12 years ago, my partner and I, before our children, purchased a couple of house pets. A couple of guinea pigs. Noisy little buggers, but they were good pets, took minimal management, and provided the required level of interaction and feedback to make having them, an enjoyable experience.
One day, about 4 months into ownership, we came home to see one of them, laying on its side in the cage, not moving much, fairly lifeless. What ensued in the following few hours was enlightening to say the least. After booking the little chap in to the nearest emergency vet, and paying the consultation fee, Bank Holiday rate, of course it was, we were told that the poor thing was almost certain to die in the next few hours.
We did the humane thing. But the following chat with the Vet was an education.
We were telling him that the guinea pig was rushing around, eating and everything appeared completely normal the previous day, and the vet explained, that this is what guinea pigs do, they hide any illness, any difficulties and anything which might suggest they are vulnerable, because they are a preyed upon animal, they basically make every effort to show outwardly that everything is ok, even though they might be struggling, and then, they just suddenly die.
Wow. It shows a remarkable level of determination of course, and an impressive level of courage, but my partner and I tagged the process “Guinea Pig syndrome”.
So, you might be asking yourself as you read this, what is this? How is this linked to charity leadership?
Well, This is how I can best describe being a leader of a small to medium charity, in the context of a National brand presence. People have the wrong impression of who we are, and how we are affiliated.
Outwardly, our charity is operating under a very well known and well-resourced brand, a National brand in fact.
This affiliation leads to a level of public confusion, which is to a degree, beneficial, but for the most part, potentially damaging.
As a member of a federated network of charities, the most popular misconception is that we are a “branch” of the national organisation, and therefore supported fully, resourced centrally, and enabled somehow, to be a healthy organisation, irrespective of the local and national challenges of the cost-of-living crisis, high inflation, reducing local authority contract prices etc. This misapprehension is really unhelpful at best, and damaging at its worst.
As a local charity, we are constituted locally, designed to be able to respond to local need, in a more agile way, far quicker, and with more relevance than a huge National charity.
This means that we have our own Board of Trustees, all volunteers by the way, and that we are charged with setting our own budgets, generating our own income, and managing, or attempting to manage our own charity business through the various challenges that businesses experience each day, week, month, and year.
Over the last 12 years, Age UK Kent Rivers has achieved a great deal within the confines of this confusing model, growth to reach nearly 20k older people across North Kent every year, the development of our own awareness campaign, #AskAboutAlf, the development of innovative services like the Clarendon Royal Community and sustained ourselves through the very challenging times of the global pandemic.
We have rolled with the punches, and always come through intact, presenting outwardly as “we are fine”.
However, the internal and external challenges we face have a detrimental impact on our efforts, and mask, to an extent, just how hard it is actually, to get through, to keep going, to sustain services.
I have lost count of the number of times customers and supporters tell me, “I give regularly to Age UK, because you do such a fantastic job taking care of my mum”, only to find out, that the person subscribes to the National organisations lottery, thinking they are directly supporting Age UK Kent Rivers.
I can’t tell you the number of calls we get to complain about missed donation collections, or poor customer experience in one of “our shops”, when in fact, we, have one shop, one very small shop in Gillingham, yet our area of benefit is used for the collection of donations through letter box bags, delivered at high costs, and donations are collected and whisked off to a regional warehouse to be distributed to National Age UK Shops which surround us. If we want to access those donations, we must pay per bag. Let that sink in for a minute.
We must continually engage with local solicitors, to inform them of the difference between the local and National charities, because they are advising older people on leaving legacies to charities.
Without our proactive messaging, it is all too easy to fulfil the request of a will maker, and name “Age UK” in the will, having heard about the valuable services enjoyed in later life in our area, services that only Age UK Kent Rivers provide, and yet, the name that goes into the will, from a pure lack of understanding is “Age UK”, the National charity. It won’t reach the local charity.
This week, I learned that our National organisation will be using private site fundraising, as part of its own fundraising strategy. This means that booths will be popping up all over the country, inside some of the popular high street shops, to recruit regular donors to Age UK. People will be encouraged to set up a Direct Debit and make a regular monthly donation of £12 or more to the charity. I wonder how many of those people will immediately assume that the “Age UK” they are donating to, is their local charity. The charity that provides the transport to and from its day services or dementia services, the charity that provides personal care to people at home, trips out, delivered meals, nail cutting across the community, respite care, extra care, exercise classes, falls prevention, wellbeing sessions, walking sports? Because that charity, is the local charity, and in this area, it’s us, Age UK Kent Rivers.
Now I realise that none of this is anyone else’s problem, and in fact it is a problem our network have been engaged in discussion on, for every year of the 12 years I have been CEO, and hopefully, together, as a network of smaller charities, we can find a way to work together with the National charity in a way which helps make the distinction clear, clear for the general public, clear for funders. We are all committed to doing so, but in the meantime, it’s so very important to be clear about the difference, and to be clear that when we, as a local charity ask for support, or try to raise funds, that this message is understood.
Without this clarity of understanding, our own local efforts to be sustainable, supported by local fundraising, our attempts to secure corporate supporters, high net worth individuals to support our work, regular donors, regular take up of our services and regular referrals to our charity, run the very real risk of being overlooked.
We run the risk of being ignored, on the misconceived basis that “we are a huge charity with loads of money”, evidenced by the fact that we can afford national TV advertising….so apologies for shouting, but “THAT’S NOT US!!”
Of course its not all bad, I said at the start of this blog that the confusion can be a benefit, and sometimes it is, because yes, the brand is very well recognised, and that’s through a combination of National and local efforts over the past 12 years since we stopped being “Age Concern”, and yes, we benefit from a website which is hosted and paid for Nationally, and we do for now, get a small grant each year as part of our legal binding to the National charity, but it is so small in the context of the work we do locally, it really is.
It’s less than 10k, in a turnover of 7 million.
There are other benefits too, a network of colleagues in similar roles to meet with and share ideas with, a few other things too, but when the rubber hits the road, what happens in our patch, is down to us.
It’s for us to design services, for us to register with CQC, for us to generate our income, for us to chase our debts, for us to balance our books, report to the Charities Commission, engage auditors etc, just like every other smaller charity.
So why I am making all this noise now?
It’s because we, Age UK Kent Rivers, are just about to start a much-needed fundraising campaign. We have been through some immensely challenging changes this past year and have much to look forward to as a result, but we need fundraising support to get us through. We need to raise funds now and to ensure that the message behind our fundraising ask is understood, and not confused with the National charity’s own efforts.
We need to be clear, so we are not perceived as the Guinea Pig I mentioned in my opening lines, to all intents and purposes, visually fine, running around quite happily, just getting on with life, and then suddenly not.
We are Local, we deliver locally, for local people, responding to local needs and aspirations, with innovation, enthusiasm and professionalism that comes from an unswerving commitment to our beneficiaries. Age UK Kent Rivers is determined to be here in the long term, for the generations which are yet to come, and to help ensure that every older person, and adult with a learning disability across our North Kent territory can Achieve Life’s Fullness.
Please don’t pass us by, please don’t assume you know who we are, come and find out.
Please don’t look the other way if we ask for support, thinking we are ok because we are part of something so much bigger.
The truth is, when it comes down to it, we are on our own.
We are trying our best to be here for everyone who needs us. But we need help. We need funds, support, donations, legacies, and grants to help support our local people.